I meet couples everyday who spend each and every moment in each other's company planning their wedding day.  It consumes their conversations and thoughts, leaving them exhausted.  Can I just suggest to all my couples out there to institute one night a week as non-wedding/family night.  Be with each other, chat about work or your dreams for the next few years together.  Don't look at wedding shows on TV or surf the net for wedding ideas.  Don't mention your families.  

I don't claim to be an expert on marriage, but I've clocked nearly 8 years and we've gone through our fair share of moves and job changes together.  What I will say is that the mundane together means more to me now then ever before.  When my husband offers to go to Costco with me or do a wine store run for a client with me I'm just so touched.  That's a part of real marriage, living the highs and lows of life with one another.  A wedding day is a biggest high in a marriage, so when in the planning stages balance it out and be a little mundane together!